Attract Women On Audio

How many times have you turned green with envy when you have seen your friend walk past you with a beautiful girl on his hand? I know you may think having a girl may not be the end all of things, nevertheless you cringe when your colleague has scored over you in befriending the cute new receptionist.

Let’s face it. All men want to know how to attract women. It is as if their self esteem manifolds when they have a gorgeous girl on their arms. I used to be like that till I realized I was only fooling myself. Women are no commodities to possess and if your self esteem is affected by having or not having a girl by your side, you must be suffering from terrible low self esteem.

This first step is to treat this low self esteem. And the best way is not to let women affect it. Put women aside for a moment. I know it’s difficult but sometimes the path to success is the difficult one. Now that you are no more thinking, eating or sleeping women, concentrate on other things – let’s say your job, your skills, your hobbies etc. You may wonder which girl would like a boring guy who was always working. Wrong! Girls like men who are focused on their work. Girls find those men attractive who pay less heed to them. Surprised? But it’s true. It’s like “how dare they not find me attractive” and in no time you will have a beeline of girls after you!

This approach is a win-win situation. Firstly, since you are concentrating on your work, your promotions come easy. Secondly, the cute receptionist you lost to your colleague is now flashing demure smiles your way.

And if you are wondering where I learnt all this, let me tell you, I was very much like you. I was shy and awkward and never knew how to approach women. Sure, now and then I would end up on drunken hookups, or go on dates with friends of friends, but in general my self-esteem was terrible, and so was my track record.  I tried every trick in the book, but still had no idea how to attract women.  I was starting to give in to despair, and believed that I would never find happiness or love.

For me, success only came when I gave up worrying about how to attract women.  Instead, I worried about how to be happy with myself.  I dedicated myself to the principle that happiness comes not from outside, but from inside.  I examined all of the factors in my life, all of the things that I cared