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I had just moved into New York city. Everything was new, the place, people and work. I didn’t know a soul and but naturally I was feeling lonely. If only I could meet some nice woman who could dispel this loneliness. It’s not that I didn’t know how to meet women but it was different here. It was not like my hometown. I grew up in Northern Carolina. It was a small town but people were liberal. And most importantly, meeting women was easy. That was because it was a small town where most people knew each other and there were enough local parties to meet new people, specifically women.

New York was a different ball game. Firstly it was big and moreover I was new. I did not have a set of friends or even people I vaguely knew. I had to begin from a clean slate. I never really figured how to talk to attractive women (strangers) at bars. It was not like back home where you could hook up with a friend’s friend or there was always someone to introduce you to the new woman in town. The environment was always more intimate than a noisy bar.

Nevertheless, I was determined to meet new women, perhaps befriend some.
I tried every trick that I could imagine.  I tried pickup lines, I tried dating services, but none of them worked.  I even had my personal ad posted on how to meet women website, but nothing seemed to come through for me.  Oh sure, I had a date now and then, and made some good friends, but my romantic life was rather bleak.  I knew that if I did not learn how to meet a woman soon, I would never find happiness in the big city.

Finally, I tried one of the self-esteem coaching schemes.  I know that it sounds pretty silly, but I was desperate.  You might think that I was a complete loser, but the speaker really seemed to know how to meet women.  And you know what?  The techniques that he showed me worked!  They seemed kind of cheesy, and I was surprised, but soon I was able to approach anyone that I wanted to.  I was flooded with dates and the going never seemed better.

However, the problem was that nothing I had learned about how to meet women appealed to me.  You see, the tricks and tips that I've learned do not work with women who are my type.  Sure, it is easy to learn how to meet women who are easily impressed by a clever line delivered with self-confidence. However, women who are deep, intelligent, and soulful are not impressed by cheap male bravado, no matter what the salesmen of self-confidence will tell you. Perhaps I will have to move again. Would you know of anything that might help?